Dating an older man with teenage kids

05 Feb

Also, if I want to have children someday, which I will, and will most likely be soon as the biological clock is ticking, I think that would just open anothr can of worms. Does he boss me around because I have no experience which he does? Am I not to ever put my opinion in our his children? I might have missed it somewhere but, have you told us for how long you are together?

I don't like the idea of him having his own children along with our children (if that happens). I want to be cherished not thought about in relevence to a strategic puzzle. Maybe he thinks it is too soon for his kids to meet a new person...

I just don't want to waste my time with something that will end up having me as the 2nd in line to be concerned with. Do his children get more love and care than his second set?

Most importantly talk everything through; these aren’t issues that are just going to go away.

Meeting someone later in life means they’re more likely to have become set in their ways.

I mean, why can't he just say "I'm with my children, have to stay at the ex's 'cause she's gone.

For one, sometimes when she is away he goes and stays at their old house together (the house in which she lives and the children with her) to watch the children. And from this I am t infer that "the house" is the house of the ex and he is with the kids there or whatever.